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11.31

Updates:

1. Still unemployed.  My last interview was back in August.  Well, there was a phone interview last month and I guess that counts.  I have a few people to email and follow-up with next week so hopefully it leads to something.

2. EV is moving back to LA to help take care of his grandma.  I hope he comes back.  NYC is so much more fun when he's around.  He also makes TV watching more fun with our endless commentary - we don't actually watch TV.  We just have it on in the background while we're on our computers and comment on what we hear.  It's quite fun.

3. Haven't bought shoes in a while.  I'm contemplating selling off the pairs I still haven't worn.  Problem is, they're in storage in LA.  I still need to figure this one out.

4.  Book ideas abound.  Now I just need to buckle down and actually start writing.  I've put it off for so long.  Once I start writing, it makes the book real and that scares me.

5. My mom and brother are visiting for a weekend early next month.  I'm trying to figure out where I'm going to take them (best part).


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11.30

Since it is All Saint's Day today, I'd like to dedicate today's blog post to Saint Therese of Lisieux.

I pray this prayer to St. Therese almost every night:

O Little Flower of Jesus, you have shown yourself so powerful in your intercession, so tender and compassionate toward those who honor you and invoke you in suffering and distress, that I kneel at your feet with perfect confidence and beseech you most humbly and earnestly to take me under your protection in my present necessity and to obtain for me this favor I ask (mention your request). Recommend my request to Mary, the merciful Queen of Heaven, that she may plead my cause with you before the throne of Jesus, her divine Son. Cease not to intercede for me until my request is granted.

St. Theresa of the Child Jesus, pray for us. Amen.

May St. Therese bless you and grant your intentions!  Happy All Saints Day!

11.29

I hate liars.  I think I made that clear in the prior post.  Well, UPS lies.  They are liars!  And I hate them.  I was expecting a delivery today and when I checked the status around 1pm, I see this:

Why is this a lie?  I was at home.  In fact, just 8 minutes prior to said attempt, I signed for a different UPS package:

I know I'm not the only one who has this problem with all these carriers.  I don't know why their drivers are too lazy to actually check if someone is home because honey, I was f*n home.

Update No. 1:  Apparently, the driver attempted delivery to a different apartment.  No wonder I wasn't "home".  Sillyheads.

Update No. 2:  Why am I being punished for other people's ineptitude???  After calling UPS again to make sure my package is being redelivered TODAY and being reassured that is was, I get this:

Monday.  I get my f*n package on Monday.  Thanks a whole lot for NOTHING UPS.  Assholes.  I am beyond pissed right now.  I hope UPS goes bankrupt.

11.28

I was watching late-night TV with Eddie the other night and "Millionaire Matchmaker" was on.  Patti (the matchmaker) asks the millionairess what she was looking for in a guy.  Apparently, Patti tries to make sure the person you are looking for is aligned with what you are looking for in a relationship (if that even makes sense).  Anyway, it got me thinking if what I look for in a guy.  Physically, I almost have one type of guy: tall, dark hair, some facial hair.  Personality-wise, sense of humor is key.  If a guy isn't funny, then it's a deal-breaker (a whole different post).  Other than humor, smart and witty is also a must.  A guy needs to be able to keep up with me because I do talk a lot and I talk a lot about a whole lot of different things.  Fashion sense also helps.  Once in a while I like to get all dolled up and I need a guy who can look as good without me having to pick out his outfit.  Other stuff that's important: does not lie (because I'm pretty good at figuring shiz out), texts/calls back right away (it only takes 2 seconds to text "busy, talk to you later" or something like that when you can't), patient, and has a great relationship with his family. 

In summary: tall, dark hair, funny, smart, witty, fashionable, honest, patient reliable, and has a great relationship with his family.  Is that asking too much?

11.27

Weekly Scorpio Horoscope: Week of October 10th

Love goddess Venus slips into Scorpio from Monday through November 2, making you the hottest thing in the universe. You’re bringing sexy back in your own trademark way: flirty, mysterious, whip-smart, and never easy to pin down. Don’t be surprised if you have your hands full of admirers before the week is through. Whether single or spoken for, some harmless flirting is good for your ego. It feels great to remember that you’ve still got it (ya never lost it, actually), so soak up the attention while it lasts. Have you been giving someone all the power in a relationship? Enough of that already! This Venus phase reminds you of your own worth. Unless you appreciate what you bring to the table, you can’t expect others to do the same. Of course, you may have been casting your pearls before swine for the past few weeks, and that never creates good feelings. Some people simply aren’t attuned enough to value your offerings. Stop wasting time trying to convince them to see things your way. You’re better off cutting ties (at least temporarily) and directing your efforts towards people who not only appreciate you, but also have something to give in return. On Friday, communication planet Mercury kicks off a three-week tour through Scorpio, blessing you with stellar writing and speaking skills. Getting your ideas out there becomes a big theme, whether you’re posting photos or essays on a blog, Tweeting with regularity, or voicing your opinions in a public place. Tuesday’s full moon in your zone of well-being brings self-care into focus. Have you been treating your body like a temple? If so, you may have something tangible to show for it. Try to switch up your fitness and eating routine slightly or add a new twist to keep it interesting. If you’ve been ignoring all the wisdom you’ve collected about exercise and good nutrition, recommit to a plan of action. You might consider downloading an app to help you track your food and fitness. Awareness is key—it can prevent you from falling into an unnecessary deprivation mindset with your diet.


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11.26

I don't understand why there has to be rules for dating.  I mean, it's dating.  How hard does it have to be that someone has to make up rules for it?  All those "self-help" books don't really help you know.  It's all BS.  The authors are just trying to "trick" you into thinking that they work.  And just how do they do that?  Beats me.  Try asking the suckers who buy those books.

Look, if those books work for you, great.  All I'm saying is that people should really lighten up about all these dating rules.  If I want to call a guy, I'll call him.  I'm not gonna wait however many number of days before I call or text.  I'll call him when I feel like it.  If he calls and I feel like talking, I'll pick up.  If I don't want to talk, I'm not picking up.  Less of a headache.  No games, no guessing.  Simple, right?  That's how it should be.


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